>Liz B.
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Liz B. pointed me toward this PW essay on
the thin line between reader's advisory work and putting limitations on library access for kids. It gives me the willies.
Is it right for me to discourage a kid’s reading choice? No. But is it right for me to give a kid a book that I think is probably not appropriate? At the risk of sounding censorship alarms, or being seen as an “uncool” librarian, my answer is again, No. I just don’t feel comfortable giving a sixth-grader one of these books—all popular titles that, in my library, are shelved “over there” in the teen area, through the door and around the corner from the children’s room.
I don't see how these positions (not discouraging a reading choice and not giving a kid an inappropriate book) are reconcilable. I recognize that the author recognizes that the question is a difficult one, and I agree that some books are too mature for some kids. But I think she errs on the side of caution where I would rather give the kid what she asks for (an eleven-year-old wanting
Twilight is an example she cites), hold my breath, and hope for the best. What we don't know from the essay is how easily kids are allowed to dodge the librarian's best intentions entirely and simply go to the YA or adult books by themselves. That would have been my own strategy as a sixth-grader, particularly if I had had a previous encounter with a librarian that made me feel snooped upon or deflected. While I hate librarians who don't move out from behind the desk, there's a little too much leading patrons by the hand going on here.
What the essay does not take up--and what so few arguments for restricting access do--is what she thinks is going to happen if a child reads a book he or she "is not ready for." Really, what? Sexual thoughts, anxiety, nightmares? Maybe, but by no means necessarily--and, while I hate to quote Dick Cheney, so what? Kids have sexual thoughts, anxieties and nightmares anyway. Normal, healthy kids. And as Liz points out, what's more likely is that a kid simply will breeze past what she doesn't understand: "
Deenie had masturbation? As a kid, I had no idea."
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>I'm a children's librarian, too, and I've had several experiences similar to this article. My approach is based solely on how well I know the kid: if I've had several conversations about books with the kid and I know them pretty well, then I'm honest and upfront about the content of the book. If I haven't read the book, then I let them know what I've read in reviews, or what other kids and parents have told me. This way, they are informed and can make the decision best for them. I always make sure that they know that it's my opinion and that they are more than welcome to disagree with me. I used this tactic with an 11 year-old girl I knew very well. She was very immature emotionally, but also oversexualized by what she was seeing on TV and in movies-- her parents let her watch "The Hills" and "The Real World" on MTV. She came to me wanting "Gossip Girl" and I gave it to her, letting her know that there might be some stuff she's not ready for. Sure enough, when I asked her about the book later, she said that she started it and realized that I had been right, and she wasn't ready for it.My particularly unique form of RA has worked very well for me and I've had several kids and parents come to me for my honest opinions about books! They know it's an opinion and some of the kids especially love coming back and agreeing or diagreeing with me! I also take the same stance with parents, and I find that many of them often appreciate a candid, honest opinion. But I only offer it if I'm explicity asked. And if I don't know or haven't read the book, I try and find someone on my staff who can help.
Now, if I don't know the kid, I don't say anything but, "Oh, I haven't read that yet. Please come tell me what you think of it and if you like and would recommend it to other kids." Then I check the book out and send them on their way. This begins a personal relationship, and allows for the child to have someone to talk to about what they're reading. (It also lets me know what's "hot" and "good"!) I've had several kids come back to me and honestly tell me about a book-- it's often funny what happens if the book is too mature for them. (ie I'll get a whispered, "There was kissing in that book!") As others have said, many kids are great at self-censoring and what is too mature for them will often go over their heads.
I think each individual librarian needs to find his or her own way to handle this situation. If we're doing our jobs and creating personal relationships with our patrons, then most kids will feel comfortable coming and talking to us, especially those kids who may need extra help finding age-appropriate books.
Posted : Aug 17, 2008 01:45
Roger Sutton
>Yes, Christina--one summer my library was roped into a deal with McDonalds--seven books for one hamburger. Picture books had never been so popular!Posted : Aug 13, 2008 02:01
Christina
>Is it quite horrible that I almost wish we had a problem like this in my library? Our kids all read board books, and I don't know how to get them to read something different. Of course, they wanted summer reading prizes-- but come on! You're going into fifth grade!Posted : Aug 13, 2008 01:45
k8
>I think part of the problem here is when people (librarians or anyone) try to decide what a child should read without considering that the parent might be fine with the choice of the "controversial" book. We often assume the opposite.As for my own little adventures with librarian disapproval, I can recall two. The first was when I was ten. A librarian didn't want to help me get Treasure Island off of a high shelf because I wouldn't like a "boy's book." Because I am contrary, I then asked her for Kidnapped, too.
Not long after that, I decided I wasn't interested in the children's section anymore and wanted to check out books from the adult section. It wasn't allowed. My mother had to go to the library with me after she got off work to check out books for me from then on. She had to be there so that I could be in the adult section. Much to the librarian's dismay, she let me check out anything I wanted. I read Madame Bovary when I was 11. I can assure you that I didn't get it. I didn't "get" Sherlock Holmes' drug usage or some of the relationship dynamics in Agatha Christie novels, either. I still read them and enjoyed them.
My point is that it is easy to assume that a child shouldn't read something based on either one's own ideas of what is proper or on one's ideas of what that child's parents would think is proper. That's a whole lot of assumptions. I wouldn't feel comfortable making them.
While I can appreciate striking up a conversation with a child about why a particular book interests him or her (especially when thinking about future reading possibilities), I can't see myself trying to dissuade him or her from reading the book.
Posted : Aug 13, 2008 06:05
Anonymous
>We've been hyper-aware of these issues at my library ever since the day I had a wonderful author of young adult books do a fabulous presentation on the writing process for a group of kids aged 5th grade and up. The next day, I had a flurry of VERY angry phone calls from parents who were FURIOUS that I had brought such "horrible" literature into the lives of their children. Ironically, the books are quite light and sweet and unobjectionable: no sex, minimal violence, and well-written to boot.Our solution was two-fold: we created a section in between the juvenile fiction and young adult fiction, which we call "Advanced Readers"; in the Advanced Reader section we place books that reviewers rate as grades 5 to 8 and 6 to 9. In addition, when parents in this very conservative town complain to us about content in books, we teach those parents how to access book reviews in the library's online catalog.
I never turn a child away from a book, but I am conscious of those parents in our town who have very strong ideas of what their child should be reading, and I give those parents the tools to learn more about the books that their children are reading. In an ideal world, I wouldn't worry about such things, but our library is funded by tax dollars, and each year at budget time we live in fear that our budget will be substantially reduced or cut. What could be worse than a town with no library at all?
Posted : Aug 11, 2008 04:59